Mzukhology

I was driving to a town far far away today, I was exhausted, the Free State sun was not doing me any justice. That was until I saw the above board. Then it made me think of YOU… Are you still chasing that dream?? Still hustling?? Feel like giving up?? Why give up after all that sweat and effort… Oh jah, it’s tough, life keeps kicking you in the teeth, you have fell and picked yourself up so much that you have lost all reasons to go on… Your friends and family are no help in the process, they are actually assisting gravity bring you down. Sometimes you find yourself singing with Black Eyed Peas “Where is the love”… All those: “Don’t do it, it’s too risky”, “You will never succeed”, “You are wasting your time” “You won’t make it” are starting to echo in your head. You are actually starting to believe them yourself. That energy and Vooom you had at the beginning has said it’s good byes… No no no, do not interpret it like that, it’s not “good bye”, it is “see you la

People always want me to fit in where ever I go, Here is my message to them: [ Middle Finger ] I am Me, And I am a Genie B#$@&, Rub me the right way and meet Mzukhona. # Mzukhology

Sometimes the truth is just a single question away but we don't ask. Sometimes you don't want to find out if the person you're interested in is taken or not. You just want them period. Sometimes the truth is not what you want to hear. The truth at times can be too hard for us to swallow. Sometimes the bitterness in the truth could kill the butterflies in our stomachs If digested so we refuse to take a bite. Sometimes we're content with not knowing. So we jump head first into love with pretend blind and deaf faith. Sometimes we are content with not knowing the depth of our decisions because we can't risk not having the person we love as ours because we've fallen so hard, so quickly, so deeply. Sometimes we're okay with shifting the responsibility. You telling me that your heart is taken is you're responsibility. "I'm not responsible for asking",  We lie to ourselves. Anything that would make us more content is finding out

A name, It's your barcode, so the government can know who you are. we are not sheep... It can take one through various emotions, One of them being pain, and if you want to test it, go to your friend and say their EX's name and watch their soul shutter through their eyes... What just hit me is that a name tells a story, When you hear "Nelson Mandela" a flood of dates and events come to mind. I think that is what's important, the story your name tells. So far when people mention my name, it's usually followed by how much of a drunkard I am.  And because of this I feel like I have failed myself, I feel like my name should mean better than being the synonym of rotten grapes, barley, hope and malt. I am working on turning it around, so it will mean something positive I guarantee you and myself... Now the sad part is that your name is also an History book cast in concrete or engraved in stone, when you want to change the story it tells, you do not e

" Do not waste hours, days, months and years trying to put the perfect plan together or trying to figure out your perfect next move. Just do something today, and make progress every day. " There was an idea I had, I sat on it for a year, When i decided to design and execute it, I found out a patent for that idea already existed.  I wasted a year of brain capacity on something that existed, had I executed earlier, I would have found out much sooner and started working on something else... Don't be like me, execute your ideas... # Mzukhology

If you want a hot shower, you'll need to turn on the hot water a bit before you step inside. It can take a while for the hot water to rise up and clear the cold water from the pipes. The thing is, though, that if you mistakenly turn the cold water tap instead, it'll never get hot. No matter how long you wait. Sometimes, it takes us too long to realize that we shouldn't wait any longer and might consider checking if we turned on the wrong tap. Nothing good comes from impatiently jumping from one approach to another, one grand scheme replaced by another. But persistently sticking with a plan that goes nowhere is almost as bad. The art of making a difference begins with thinking hard about when it's time to move on. The "Dip" is real, but there are dead ends everywhere. Sometimes, the world is telling us it's time to leap . - Seth Godin http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2017/03/the-tap-metaphor.html

Want a Hot chick??? Well, let's get some wisdom from the man who got Beyoncé... Many many years ago, Jay-Z wrote a song, here is an extract of the lyrics: "Too many bitches wanna be ladies, so if you a hoe I'ma call you a hoe, too many bitches are shady. Too many ladies give these niggaz too many chances Too many brothers wannabe lovers don't know what romance is Too many bitches stuck up from too many sexual advances No question; Jay-Z got too many answers" I think Jay-Z has solved all relationship problems. Take his advice or leave... I took it, I took the    " Too many bitches wanna be ladies"  No I treat all the women I meet with love and respect since I know what their hearts long for... # Mzukhology

Hey African child, Never forget the secret to success: " Baby Steps " Take one step at a time. When you fall, Rise, smile, laugh a lil, maybe throw in a dance somewhere and keep going, back to the baby steps. Crawl, walk, jog, run, sprint or fly, whatever you do, don't stop moving ... Then one day you will be successful without even thinking about it... Good Luck 😊 # Mzukhology

Today I was listening to a Kanye West song, then the above line was said. It got me thinking, so I pulled up a few articles. Then I got the following extract from one of the articles: "Apparently Lucifer had become proud as the chief of angels and desired to rise above God. Some say his sin was to disbelieve that God had created him and assume that he had evolved to this height and now he could go higher in the evolutionary chain to be first." Then it got me thinking about all these people complaining about their jobs, how they can do a better job that their managers and how they are under values/pain in that company. If thats the case, they must do like the devil did, prove it!!! The devil left Heaven to start his own "Business", and he created a very successful one while he was at it... He created an Empire... Let's leave who belongs to it for Armageddon... Point is, if you think you are better that you are treated where you are, leave and prove it..

These are the worst two word a woman's vocabulary can spit out... "Honey what's wrong" " I'm Fine " Then she carries on frowning. You can see she is not ok, but since we a man you don't want to insult her intelligence and her ability to articulate words properly, you back. What happens later?? You here these words: "Earlier you hurt my feelings in this and that way, you didn't pay attention to me and you didn't even apologies" As a guy, your mind can't help but say " WTF!!! " Ladies, y'all got to learn to express your feelings. See how you do it when you are angry, please apply the same principle when you are sad, some of us don't have bones to through on the ground. Ah, then I'm fine has a cousin: "I don't care" She will say she doesn't care but then won't stop talking about the incident... Again   " WTF!!! " # Mzukhology

Yes, you on the right blog at the right time. Listen, here is the secret: " There is no secret " Ain't you glad you came, I don't share this with anyone, it's some valuable information... Anyway, just recently I met a new friend. Most guys prefer to describe her as hot and beautiful, I prefer to describe her as smart. In the short while we have known one another we have already shared some interesting facts. She knows my masterbation addiction and i know her secret for a fruitful relationship. She calls it the "3 Cup Theorem"... Cup 1, belongs to Me, Cup 2, belongs to You and Cup 3, belongs to US. Her theory is simple, before I can pour into the US Cup or YOUR Cup I first have to fill up MY. How I fill up my cup is also simple, I have to know myself !!! Knowing myself means, I know deep down who I am and what it is that I want my life. What are my dreams, passions and goals in life. Basically for this step I have to be selfish and fill